I am really starting to believe in this saying more and more. Cheating is not just physical, but emotional. And personally I find the latter more painful. Sure they may be physically with you, and he goes home to you and you wake up with him right beside you, but if his mind and heart are wandering off, then he really isn't there. I just find it sad, some guys never really learn. They never grow up and they don't even attempt to change and better themselves. Shame shame shame.
Oh and if you had to use another person to get somewhere in your life, that isn't much of an accomplishment. So stop boasting and claiming all the credit. Cause you wouldn't be where you are without that boost. The NERVE of some people.